In 3 weeks, my baby will be 2 years old. It has been the most tiring 2 years of my life. Four children is enough to make anybody exhausted. My younger 2 kids, being only 1 year and 3 months apart, have provided challenges to my schedule that I never expected. The most important thing that I've learned through all of these stages is this: IT'S ALL TEMPORARY. My kids won't die if they don't have a home-cooked meal at every meal. I will look pretty again one day. These days of wearing my hair in a ponytail and no make up on my face will not last forever. It's ok if I wear pajamas all day (as long as no one is coming over). I will learn to talk about things other than my kids' fascination with bodily functions.
I have also learned who my true friends are. They are the ones that have sat at my house to visit because it's easier than going out with my kids or I don't have a sitter. They sit with me (pajamas and all) while my kids run around like crazy and we try to have a conversation over my kids' yelling & silliness. They are the ones that I have poured my heart out to about being a mom in ministry. SIDE NOTE: 2 of the hardest jobs in the world are being a mom and being in the ministry; constantly serving others all while being criticized, praised, argued with, honored, loved and hated. They are the ones that have listened as I poured out every frustration and they have given wisdom and encouragement. They have taught me how to be a better friend by being such a good friend to me.
I want to be a person that is constantly learning. I am thankful for seeing the light at the end of THIS tunnel. We'll see what challenges the next tunnel brings and how long it will take before I see the light.
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I'm just here to testify to the 2 hardest jobs EVER. Amen.
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